"You didn't plan to give it to us, but you guys were sincere in raising it. We finally raised the child, and we just came back home for a few days. You criticized the child and said he was useless. What on earth do you want to do? You said he came from a small family. Do you look down on the child's mother, or do you look down on our Prince's Mansion?
Your general's mansion is big enough, but it's too big to accommodate a small child. If you look down on the background of Nan's mother, why did you marry her? You looked down on her but still married her home. After marrying her home, you didn't cherish her, but targeted her and made things difficult for her. Let's think about it carefully. Who is sick here?
If I don't like someone, I won't deal with them at all, and I will even avoid them. But you, you obviously don't like them, but you still marry them. Aren't you mentally ill? Aren't you ruining the happiness of the girl? If she had married someone else, she might still be alive and well.
As a result, after marrying into your family, I lost my life at a young age. This is not the worst. The worst is that after finally giving birth to a child, I was not welcomed by my husband’s family, my father didn’t love me, and my grandmother didn’t love me. I was even targeted in various ways. In the end, I was sold. After I was sold, no one cared about me or looked for me. Don’t you think this is fucked up?
If I remember correctly, this child didn't eat and drink for free in your house, his mother left a dowry. What's the matter? Brother Nan's mother's dowry was used to support your beloved little wife, but who is she supporting now? So much dowry, but there is not enough space for a child.
As the ancients said, if you have a stepmother, you will have a stepfather. Your family is planning to eat up all the blood and bones of Brother Nan and his mother. You are holding Brother Nan tightly now, can't it be because someone else has set his eyes on the dowry? Are you waiting for Brother Nan to die by himself, and Brother Nan's maternal family is not strong enough, and no one will give them justice, so you will just eat up Brother Nan's family."
Shen Ruyi deliberately said something unpleasant. In fact, the old lady in their house was not that bad. She was definitely bad, but not as exaggerated as Shen Ruyi said. However, she was still bad. She just wanted to irritate the other party.
"You're talking nonsense. That's not true. My mother isn't a bad person. She just doesn't know how to talk. You misunderstood. You're exaggerating. My late wife's death was an accident. I didn't look down on her, and I didn't bully her. Her death was an accident, and I didn't expect it to be like this."
"But judging from your behavior, you just look down on her and think she has no backing. You think she has no talent behind her, so she did this. Otherwise, the dead are the greatest. Your late wife passed away at a young age, but your mother still didn't let her go and used such a tone to evaluate her. Isn't that immoral? Have you lost your dignity?
Your mother doesn't even like other people's children. Your family is too scary, too frightening, and they don't even let a dead person go. Your mother has such an attitude, which is the result of your default. If you had paid more attention to your late wife and cared about her a little, your mother would not dare to say such a thing about a dead person, let alone treat her own grandson with such contempt and disdain.
It also shows that your mother doesn't like you, her own son. If she really loves you, she will love your deceased wife even if she doesn't like her. She doesn't like your deceased wife, and she shows it so openly, which shows that she doesn't care about you, her son, or your thoughts.
If she cared about her son, she would take care of him. Look at her current behavior. She has no tolerance for her children and grandchildren. She only makes strict and unreasonable demands and criticizes such a young child. So, the core problem is that your mother doesn't love you either.
You see, she wouldn't treat your brothers' children like this. What does that mean? It means you are not important in her heart. She thinks your thoughts and attitudes are not important and can be ignored. Naturally, your son and your interests are not important in her heart. Otherwise, if she loves you a little, she would not do such a thing.
Think about it, when the child is lost, what are you men doing? You are fighting. What if you are worried about your son and lose your focus during the battle, and something happens? How dangerous it is. Any mother who loves her children will do her best to help her son who is away from home and on the battlefield to stabilize the rear, instead of fainting every other day.
Why didn't she faint normally? Why did she faint at the critical moment of looking for her child? Why did she faint so timely? I don't believe that a healthy person who can eat, drink and enjoy life can suddenly faint several times a day. Is this a lie? If she fainted because her other beloved grandchild was lost, it would be a little credible.
Brother Nan, how could she be worried about losing her grandson whom she didn't even love? If she was really worried, she wouldn't be worried in this way. Even a fool could see that she didn't like the child and didn't want to send anyone to rescue the child. She just wanted the child to die outside. She is the weathervane in your house. If she, the grandmother, doesn't care about the child's life or death, do you think other people will care about the child's life or death?
You still say it's a misunderstanding. Only a fool like you would think it's a misunderstanding. You love your mother deeply, but obviously, your mother doesn't love you as much as you think. The love in your eyes is nothing more than a symbol of her being an old feudal lord. She controls you more and manipulates you, otherwise you are disobedient and unfilial.
To put it bluntly, she is selfish and only loves herself. She likes to be in control of everything. Otherwise. Why does she have to worry about whether she likes a certain daughter-in-law? The daughter-in-law lives with her son, not with her. Why does she care so much and like to make trouble? It's nothing more than she wants to control the whole house and make everyone listen to her and revolve around her. To put it bluntly, she is selfish and she is immoral.
Whether it is a misunderstanding or not, you know it in your heart, and I know it in my heart, so don't try to smooth things over or pretend in front of me. I may know your mother better than you do, because the side of your mother you see is the side she wants you children to see, while the side of your mother I know is all of her sides, and she is much more selfish than you think."
Don't think that you are the only ones who can do mental and emotional manipulation, PUA to suppress children, and label children. Shen Ruyi can do this too. Come on, let's hurt each other.
"You're talking nonsense. My mother is not that kind of person. You're talking nonsense." Chen Zhanbei didn't quite believe it. How could his mother not love him? The other party must be talking nonsense.