After going to the countryside, I rely on the sign-in system to bring my sisters along - Chapter 414 Unfortunate Life
After going to the countryside, I rely on the sign-in system to bring my sisters along
Chapter 414 Unfortunate Life"You know what? People always treat others differently. My dad not coming home meant that he didn't value my mom, so my grandparents didn't value my mom either. Then my grandparents didn't like me either, and my mom didn't want to take care of me either. When I was five years old, my mom left me with an old Chinese doctor and asked me to learn from him. That's why I know Chinese medicine. Later, I went to the front line with a military doctor and studied with him for many years. Later, I passed many assessments, obtained various certificates, and then went to work in the hospital."
"I thought my dad had a family and children outside of his hometown for so many years. After I became capable, I secretly went to my dad's workplace, investigated and even followed him. He didn't have a family outside of his hometown, nor did he have other children. He only had my mom as his wife, and I was his only child. But I don't know why he didn't want my mom and me."
"I didn't understand it before, but I understood it later. He doesn't like my mom, nor does he like me. His marriage to my mom was arranged by our elders, and he gave birth to me just to fulfill the elders' wishes. His not going home was a silent resistance to the family's arrangement."
"From that time on, I decided that even if I couldn't meet someone I liked in this life, I would not go on blind dates to get married, and I certainly would not marry someone arranged by my elders, as this would mean I would live a life without love."
"It was not until I met you outside the operating room that I realized that there really are people in this world who you can love at first sight. I am so happy to be with you. You are the only warmth in my life. I am really afraid of losing you. I also value you very much. In my heart, you are more important than myself. Without you, I don’t know if I can still live..."
Wen Xi just listened quietly, but she didn't expect that He Chenan had such an unfortunate life experience.
It is not easy for him to be so outstanding, because many people will be defeated by difficulties and give up on themselves. There are really few people like him who can find a way out through their own efforts.
This is the most common marriage nowadays. The husband and wife do not like each other, but they get together for various reasons such as continuing the family line, and become a pair of resentful couples, giving birth to several innocent children.
She felt that He Chenan's father was disgusting. He could not disobey the orders of his family, so he married He Chenan's mother. After the child was born, he never returned home, leaving the mother and child to live in dire straits.
Moreover, He Chenan's mother has been delayed for so many years. He Chenan is now in his twenties, and he has not been home for so many years. He Chenan's mother has been delayed for so many years.
If he didn't like He Chenan's mother, he could go home and divorce her. He could find another wife, and He Chenan's mother could also find another wife. But in the end, more than 20 years of her youth were wasted.
Wenxi would rather live alone for the rest of her life than have such a marriage.
"I haven't told you these things because I'm afraid you'll be scared. Also, I don't plan to take you home because I want to marry you and settle down with you in the city where you work. I won't go home unless it's necessary, and I won't let you face these things at home."
Wen Xi smiled faintly, "You said it so lightly. Do you think you can get away with it if you don't go home? Your parents are still young now, and they don't need you yet. When they are old and need you, if you are not with them, they will use filial piety to pressure you and force you to stay with them. I have seen many parents like this. They are afraid that no one will take care of them when they are old, so they break their children's wings and prevent them from developing and getting better."
"If you really marry me and live outside, they may not bother you because they see that you have a job, but they will force me to serve them."
"Moreover, some elderly people deliberately make things difficult for others. They just don't want a nanny to take care of them, and want their daughter-in-law to serve them personally." Wen Xi has a deep understanding of this matter because she worked in that old man's house for more than ten years in her previous life.
Doesn’t that old man have any money?
His family has money, but they don't give it to her or hire a nanny. They just treat her like a free nanny and exploit her.
"Xiaoxi, will you marry me?" He Chenan asked excitedly.
"It's a nice thought, do you think it's possible?" Wen Xi tried to take back her hand, but she didn't expect that He Chenan kept holding it tightly and never relaxed for a second.
She had never had much interest in getting married, and now after hearing about He Chenan's parents and grandparents, she had even less interest in getting married, and she didn't have the courage to get married.
"I really wanted to marry you before, but now I really don't want to get married." Wen Xi told the truth, not wanting to waste He Chenan's time.
In this day and age, which girl would pay for her own house and get married? She is probably the first one. Isn't this enough to prove her determination?
But after going to the mission world a few times and experiencing some things, her mentality has changed and she no longer wants to get married. Moreover, her situation is not suitable for marriage because she has to go to various mission worlds frequently and meet many other people. If she does not restrain herself, she will most likely fall in the mission world. After all, there are also excellent people in the mission world, aren't there?
He Chenan also knew that there was a rift between them and it would not be so easy to heal, but he would try his best. He believed that one day, they would return to the way they were before.
"Gurgle, gurgle, gurgle..." Suddenly an embarrassing sound was heard in the quiet kitchen.
Wen Xi looked at He Chenan suspiciously, "Didn't you have dinner?"
"I have no appetite and didn't eat much." He Chenan looked at Wen Xi pitifully.
Wen Xi looked at his thin face and understood why he was so thin. It was probably because he hadn't eaten properly since the breakup. From this point of view, she was more heartless. She was just a little absent-minded at the beginning and couldn't concentrate, but she had always eaten well, so she didn't lose weight because of the breakup.
"I have some steamed buns at home. I'll heat them up for you." Wen Xi stood up, and He Chenan let go of Wen Xi's hand.
Wen Xi walked to the cupboard and took out four large golden cornmeal steamed buns from the system warehouse under the cover of the cupboard. She added two scoops of water to the iron pot, put the steamer on the stove, put the steamed buns in, and then put two fresh eggs in. Then she turned her head and looked at He Chenan, "Come and light the fire. Are you waiting for me to cook for you?"
"Oh, okay." He Chenan was delighted and hurried to the back of the stove. He grabbed a handful of straw and stuffed it into the stove hole. He lit it with a match, and then used tongs to stuff the leaves into the stove hole.